Do I Have Value?

Hello There Everyone, 

Well first of all, I hope you are having a good day so far. 

Well, today I wanted to quickly talk to you about a topic that has to deal about valuing who you are and doing what you can to make the best you regardless of your shape, size, color, or anything of that sort. In our lives we sometimes struggle with finding an "identity" for ourselves, knowing what exactly makes us different from the rest. 

I was faced with a situation the other day that will make sense in why I am telling you this; someone asked me what was it that made me, me. I'm not going to sit here and tell you guys that the first thing that I said was my many talents or my amazing ability to to be the best in everything and anything I do. Honestly it took my some time to come up with an answer. I was thinking it over and over and over again in my mind, "what's special about me?" "What is it that stand out about myself?" and at that moment I couldn't think about anything better to say then to say my personality. Well of course my personality makes me, me. I mean everyone's personality is different and it's what makes the person them, you know?  

Now that I think of it, there are so many things I could have said, and this whole experience really opened my eyes so I can be able to realize that I should value myself more, now I'm not talking about making an idol of myself or feeling like I'm the best person in the world and everyone should think that but being comfortable with myself, knowing that God choose me because He wanted to use me to make a difference in this world and I'm not going to be able to make any difference if I am not able to see any value in myself, before this experience I was one of the persons who found many positive and wonderful qualities in many people but yet couldn't find at least one in myself. I now leaned to value who it is that I am and fight every day in making the best me that I can be, when you are shy and fail to see the value in yourself then how can we expect for anyone else see this value that we all have. If you can't help yourself then how can we be able to help others in need. 

Value yourself because you are unique and do not allow anyone to make you think otherwise, making a difference in this world has to start within us. 

"Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity." 1 Timothy 4.12 

Mediate in this verse and let me know what you think in the comments down below. 

Thank you all for reading, Take Care and God Bless until next time.

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You Can!

Hi everyone! :) 

I hope you are all doing great, today I wanted to talk to you about a topic that I see affects a lot of people. But before that let me explain how this topic came to my mind; currently I am planning of some ideas and the only 'problem' I have is that I need to buy some new things to help me make my plan a reality. But I've seen so many people who have the great potential in going such great things, but because of one little thing they quickly give up, is it that they are afraid and they see this little bump as a 'sign' to not continue? I know that every case is different but I also see many people start something and don't continue. For example, I've seen some youtubers and I've found some channels that they started posting great videos but I check the dates that those videos were posted and it was from 8 months ago or even 2 years ago and they haven't uploaded a new video. It could be that the they gave up because they didn't see any growth in their channel or maybe for other reasons but yet with everything we do we have to put our best in it. For example in the videos you post on YouTube, you have to make sure that you always do your best in every video because you never know which video is going to make it viral and make your name known. Just like everything else in our lives, like in our work place when we do our best and if our boss notices it then we can get a higher position. Don't be afraid of doing something, if you have a goal, go for it! I know that maybe you have heard this so many times but believe in yourself! You have the potential to do so many things but only if you are willing to act on it and go for it. You can do more then you imagine!

Until next time guys, take care and God bless. 

The Bumblebee

According to scientists, the bumblebee's body is too heavy and its wing span too small. Aerodynamically, the bumblebee cannot fly. But the bumblebee doesn't know that and it keeps flying.
When you don't know your limitations, you go out and surprise yourself. But the day you place limitations in front of you then you'll stop going ahead, you'll even stop fighting. The only limitations a person has are those that are self-imposed. Don't allow yourself to be your own limitation. Continue fighting and do not allow anything to stop you and soon you will be just like a bumblebee, 

Have we became selfish?

There are some people so poor that the only thing they have is money. 

What are we really worried about? So many times in life people get catch up with their own lives that they start to forget about everyone else around them, even the people who have been there since day one. When a teenager leaves home to go off to college, at that moment they don't first think about their parents. Their only worry is about their lives and future, they begin to wonder how college life will be like, who's going to be their roommate, what new experiences are about to come their way and how their lives will quickly change. This kind of mentality usually lasts until the day they move out and their start to realize that they are suffering of home-sickness. It's when they realize that they are on their own and that mommy is not going to be there all the time and her delicious warm food won't be ready as they walk into their dorm. But unfortunately many children don't remember or wish not to remember about their parents or loved ones. Many only see their family when they are on winter break or summer break or some even decide to stay away from home. They soon graduate from college and start their own lives in a far away state and only see their family a number of times. Even if we live in the same house as our family we at times ignore them intentionally or unintentionally and only focus on our wants, our dreams, it's soon becomes all about us. This act of selfishness can quickly make us forget to appreciate the simple things that we can have, just like being able to remember childhood memories with their brothers and sisters as you sit around the dinning table. Many times we have to remind ourselves what it is that we are trying to achieve. We can soon become the definition of the word Selfish. So always take time to appreciate what you have in front of you, take some time to spend it with your loved ones over an ice cream, because there's always time for ice cream.  

Take care and until next time. 

~ Miss Vanessa